The search for the perfect dildo: Size really does matter

When she’s not diving deep into the latest sex trends or researching the best vibrators on the market, you can find her reading at a coffee shop or watching reality TV. An inflatable dildo is a sex toy that has the ability to inflate in size once inserted by using an attached pump to increase the size of the dildo and achieve a feeling of complete ‘fullness’. There are a number of risks that you face if you look for things to use as a dildo that aren’t safe. If you absolutely must use an alternative to a dildo, using a condom and common sense goes a long way. However, it will be more difficult to wash these oils from your vagina, hands and even the item you’re using to masturbate with than water-based lube.

Exploring intimate experiments within the confines of one’s private space is crucial for keeping the spark alive. Among Indian individuals, dildos, particularly realistic and rotating head dildos, consistently remain in high demand and occupy the top position. Designed to closely resemble the shape, texture, and color of a real penis, providing a lifelike experience for those seeking a more authentic sensation. Some dildos can also be used with harnesses, just ensure that they have a wide base with the goal so that they won’t sneak past the bridle ring.

This roughly corresponds to an average (or slightly above-average) penis size. Safe and pleasurable anal sex is a whole separate article, but luckily, we’ve already written it here. Moreso than vaginal penetration, anal requires some degree of planning ahead and working yourself up to full-on penetration. So if you’re hoping to use your toy for anal, check out that article, too.

There’s also some nice quality of life features – an ergonomic handle, quick stop button, and waterproof casing for fun in the shower. It’s hard to recommend a specific dildo as the best length and width are going to depend heavily on your experience level , and the specific shape you’re looking for. Very similar to the silk, the Temptasia Twist is a constant width dilator-style dildo by Blush. They’re also harness compatible, and have a unique twisting texture on the shaft for some additional stimulation as they slide in and out. True to its name, the Tantus Silk is a smooth, small dildo with a consistent shaft thickness that also makes for a great dilator-type toy.

There are outstanding dildoes you can get for less than $50 and incredible models you can find for several hundred. The relationship between cost and quality isn’t direct, but you will often find added features at higher price points. Those might include smartphone or remote control for vibration and motion functions. Pay close attention to the term “insertable length” when you see it.

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If you like a realistic-looking dildo, then you’ll love this silicone-based, flesh-y toy. With a girth of just 1.5″, you’ll be able to get deep penetration without a super-wide width. This dildo has a suction base, so it can easily fit into a harness (or on any other surface).

I’d only recommend Edge 2 to experienced folks and overconfident intermediaries – beginners can sit this out. On one end, it enhances the quality of prostate stimulation , while on the other, it might be too much to handle, especially for people with mobility issues and weak hands. While some reviewers faulted the non-vibrating design Double Ended Dildo, I didn’t miss a beat. Of course, a prostate vibrator turns on the dials, but the weighted design and temperature-responsive properties made up for the inequity. We also found it relatively easy to handle the njoy Pure Wand. The smooth stainless-steel finish slips often, especially with lubed hands, but regulating the intensity and angle of penetration was easy.

Beyond the power, the sex machine has a unique dual-thrusting mechanism that lets you enjoy powerful self-thrusting from either end (image below). An average sex machine user might never use it, but kinky couples looking to explore the wild side will enjoy the dual-thrusting rods. Overall, we thought the efficiency and power were the best (97% average scores) among the thrusting rabbit vibrators we reviewed. The testers especially loved the flickering ears’ flexibility because they did a good job clamping against the clitoral hood for precise clitoral stimulation.